Gabriel Harry Mordecai died on May 6, 2005 at the age of 13 years. Gabriel played a game and lost.This game goes by many names: Black Out, Pass Out, Choking, Fainting, Strangle, Flatline, California High, Funky Chicken and Space Monkey to name a few. If you are reading this, please send this message on; Please spread the dangers of this game; Our schools need to implement a program into one of it's existing programs on thrill seeking behavior, such as drug abuse and illicit sex. They teach our kids not to share needles, where to get birth control..They can teach them not to hold their breath!

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My heart goes out to the Parents of Gabriel, what a tragedy,
May God bless you and help you through this difficult time, you will be in out thoughts and prayers.
Anonymous | July 28, 2005

This game has been around for a long time...When I was in Elementary school (15-20 years ago) kids used to grab their neck with both hands, like a butterfly, around their neck and wait to pass out. I tried it one time, but never felt the effects because I was too scared and stopped. I'm so sad for your family. Take care of yourselves. I'm sending good thoughts and prayers your way. Thanks for the awareness.
Brandy | July 28, 2005

I am extremely sorry for your lose. I too have experimented with that game when i was about 10-12 years old, when a cousin of mine from Las Vegas came on her yearly summer visits. She showed me this game that all her and her friends played back home. I remember how cool i thought it was and started to show friends and siblings about this game. I did it with numerous people and thank god no one was ever hurt. I really now regret ever playing this stupid game that could of possibly cost the life of someone special to me. I hope the more media exposure goes out, so that many parents and children can get a better education on this ridiculous game and show the possbile consequences. May Gabriel rest in peace.
Nancy | nancy_serrano@hotmail.com | July 29, 2005

I played this game in the arly 70's. You would hyperventilate approximately 30 times, hold your breath and some one from behind would lift you up and squeeze you until you pass out. If you think about it now, it was pretty silly thing to be doing.

My deepest condolence.
Mark | atlffs11@aol.com | July 29, 2005

To the family of Gabe:
My deepest sorrow for your loss. Thank you for making other parents aware of this tragic game. I am a mother of three children and have already talked with my kids about this horrible game. May each wonderful memory bring you some comfort. Again, my sympathies to you and your family. God bless you for your strength.
Lori Perez | peanut028@cox.net | July 30, 2005

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I cant even express to you how sorry I am. I have 2 children ages 5 and 11. I have had the talk with them. I too played this game when I was 13.I am 28yrs now. I cant believe there isnt any information about this out there.
Again my deepest sorrows for your family.
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Nicole scott | nicole1st@sbcglobal.net | July 31, 2005

Hey sam and Sarah I just wanted to tell you that I am happy to be able to have met gabe and that he will always stay in my heart. Hey Sam happy b-day sorry I didn't call hope you enjoy being fourteen so what happened about stalking me? lol just messing around well sara and sam enjoy life as it comes don't skip ahead and sam e-mail me or call me and I will call back if you ever want to talk ask steven for my number.
love always Amanda
Amanda Seagraves | medevil44@yahoo.com | August 01, 2005

My heart and prayers go to you and your family. I'm a single mother of three, girl 13, girl 11, and boy 9. I too used to play this stupid game, stopped when my mom caught me and a friend with socks around our necks. We were lucky, a couple of my friends weren't and were left with damages to their brains. I just found out tonight that my oldest daughters friends are playing this game, although she denies playing it I'm worried that she is (shes come home with red eyes, extremely hyper, and has been showing her younger sister how to tie knots around her neck) I'm worried about this 'game.' I'm glad I found your site and I will be showing my kids tomorrow. I know my daughter will be upset with me but I agree with your comment about the school's also teaching them to keep breathing. This is NOT a 'game' and should not be played as one.
God Bless you all, and may your Angel rest in peace
Anonymous | November 24, 2005

I was the one who forgot to put my name and e-mail address. (Just found out about oldest daughters friends) If you have any suggestions on web sites or anything else that could help in letting these children know the consequences of this 'game' Please e-mail. Thank-you and god bless again.
Laurie H. | under_the_starz@hotmail.com | November 24, 2005

Hi Sara. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son, Gabe. I want to thank you for so bravely sharing what has happend to you and your family.

I lost my son Mark to the choking game on November 5, 1998. Mark was 16 years old. I found him that morning when I went to get him up for school. At first we thought suicide, but it seemed so impossible because his body was laying across his bed. At that time I had never heard of this tragic game, but it didn't take long to figure out what might have happened when we stated talking with Marks friends.

It has been seven years now since we lost Mark, and I am just now hearing how prevalent this has become. So I want to say thank you so much for sharing your story and giving me a place to share my story.

May God bless you and your family,

Kathy Wells
Kathy Wells | kathyfianlly@webtv.net | December 06, 2005

Dear Mrs. Mordecai,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. It must be difficult to bear, but your family and all the other victims familys is always in my prayers. I first learned of your son and your family by choosing the "choking game" as a senior project. Myself and 5 other girls in my school will be presenting a power point to the community in a week and i have asked a tv station to come so people who do not come to this informational meeting can be warned. Both of your sons have been an insparation to me and will be included in the power point that we will be presenting. If you would like to contact me feel free. Also if you would like me to send you the power point we created you can email me! again your family is always in my prayers.
sincerely,
Abby Londo
Abby Londo | Cr8zy4you1313@hotmail.com | January 05, 2006

I first heard of this game three months ago when my 15 year old daughter lost her best friend and english partner from this dangerous game.She has not been the same since.She asked me if they were so close why didn't she know what he was doing.They did thier homework togeather just hours before his death.The last words she said to him were "I LOVE YOU AND I"LL SEE YOU TOMORROW."

My heart goes out to the Parents,Family and friends that lost a love one to this game.

Bless everyone involved,
Leslie
Leslie Murray | lellyjoon@yahoo.com | February 09, 2007